Where are you with your goals? Is your practice or your relationship or your body, for that matter, where you want it to be? If not, than are you visualizing your goals, I mean really seeing them? Do you see the new patients walking in the door and listening to what you have to say to them, do you see what they look like, smell the perfume that they are wearing, do you see them excepting care and even paying you for your services? If not, than maybe you are cutting yourself short. Take a listen to this clip from Dr. James Sigafoose and follow what he is saying and in a month or two of doing what he says, let me know how things are changing.